My goals in life are usually impossible ones. And when I realise that they aren't achievable I get sad and depressed. I often believe that, things that aren't in my range can be achieved, and I spend lots of time and energy trying to achieve them. Of course I end up without achieving those things and with a great felling of incapacity, for not being able to achieve them.
So, and for the first time in many years, I'll make a new year resolution (of course it's a little late, but better late then never): I'll start setting my goals in more down to earth objectives, and I'll applying this to all things in life.
I once read that if you always tried to the impossible, then you would get at least some part of what you wished for. But I now disagree entirely with that stupid proposition. I've been trying the impossible and all I keep getting is disappointment and the felling of incapacity. I had enough of that already.
So I'll stop wishing the impossible… and the most that can happen is that I still won't achieve my goals… but at least I'll have a higher probability of achieving them.
No comments:
Post a Comment