Monday, 19 December 2005

Well… talk about a coincidence… Last night I was trying to explain how I felt happiness and money had nothing to do with each other… And today, well I spent almost all my day watching cartoons… and I was seeing one of Charlie Brown that had a song that said it all… so for the first time in my blog, and against everything I used to think… here is the lyrics…

From "You're a Good Man Charlie Brown"

Happiness is finding a pencil.
Pizza with sausage
telling the time.
Happiness is learning to whistle.
Tying your shoe for the very first time.

Happiness is playing the drum in your own school band.
And happiness is walking hand in hand.
Happiness is two kinds of ice cream.
Knowing a secret.
Climbing a tree.
Happiness is five different crayons.
Catching a firefly.
Setting him free.

Happiness is being alone every now and then.
And happiness is coming home again.
Happiness is morning and evening,
day time and night time too.
For happiness is anyone and anything at all
that's loved by you.

Happiness is having a sister.
Sharing a sandwich.
Getting along.
Happiness is singing together when day is through,
and happiness is those who sing with you.
Happiness is morning and evening,
daytime and nighttime too.

For happiness is anyone and anything at all
that's loved by you.

Portugal has a new publicity spot, it says: Bet in your dreams… National Lottery 10 million euros.

Is it me or is it just sad if your biggest dream has to do with owning a lot of money?

I believe I can be happy without a lot of money, of course it's necessary to eat, to have some comfort in life, but I'm not talking luxury. I think the most important things in life haven't got anything to do with money… being able to respect myself, believing someone, understanding and helping someone with a problem, make someone smile just because you're there… I could go on and on, and none of these things have to do with money.

Most people believe that in order to be happy, to have their dreams come true, they need a great car, an awesome holidays or the most luxurious house they can think of. I'm glad I disagree. The house of my dreams only has to fill some requests that aren't at all dreams. I want it to be cosy, to have a fireplace and preferably a good view. I don't need a big house, a huge living room, or a TV that costs what I wouldn't pay for ten TV's. I need my books, but I don't need a library, in fact I prefer the way it is right now… lots of books all spread by the house. I don't need to have a great car (yes I like to see good cars, but I don't crave any… I also like Manet but I wouldn't bye a painting of him, even if I had the money for that) or to make fancy trips. I like to keep it simple, and I believe I can be extremely happy that way.

I have no intention to be extremely well succeeded in professional terms because I truly believe that I'll have a family and I intend to spend lots and lots of time with them. I understand that society has to be motivated to buy, to consume, to crave, I'm just glad I was left out of that vicious circle.

Sunday, 18 December 2005

My entire life is about routine. I'm used to do the same things everyday the same way, and to tell you the truth I don't want to change that.

Well I never want to change anything, but lately everything that has changed in my life has been a good surprise, for example:

I trained karate for 10 years but in the beginning of the year I stopped going. The truth is that I was just being lazy, but the result was that I got more time to do other things. Although I'm very lazy, I also hate having nothing to do, so I started to read more, something that for whatever reason, in the last few years, I had done very little.

Another example I've never enjoyed the beach very much, so I used to avoid going many times to it (in fact I only went when I was drag to it by my parents or colleges), but the last few years I started to go to the beach every chance I got… I ended up finding one of the great loves of my life… the sea.

Another… during prep school I had French for three years, and during those three years I meet the three worst teachers of French that exist on the planet... I end up hating French, and as I was pretty good in English, I ended up with the idea that I didn't need to know any more languages. Last September a friend of mine told me about some French classes that wore going to happen near me. I'm still trying to understand why I did it, but the reality is that I loved the classes... not because of the teacher (I continue to think I know the worst FOUR teachers of French in the all history), but because I actually learned something… I ended up understanding French texts and that for me is a great achievement. I also meet some great people in those classes, and the idea of escaping the routine of computer classes and computer nerds every Tuesday and Thursday, made the semester end more quickly and with better humour… That's probably the first time that it happens to me.

Friday, 16 December 2005

Explaining the basic needs of the human being is extremely simple… is it?
Well, let's star with the most basic… the human need to sleep and eat. Now let's start complicating it a little bit more, we need to get a bath every once in a while… we need a house to live, we need cloths to wear. Seams easy so far but let's take it up a notch.
People need to interact, need to belong to a social being so they feel completed (well it seams it's starting to complicate…doesn't it?), they need to be part of a family and to make a family… we're entering the needs… the “not physiologic” needs… we need to love, to be loved, we need to smile, to cry, to laugh… basic feelings... let's complicate it... we need to feel frustrated, we crave success, we envy, we desire…
And now… the worst part… we can find people that are the exception… and still feel good with them. There're people that don't want to succeed but are still happy, there're the ones that don't envy, the ones that don't desire, etc…
You could say… they say they don't… but in fact… they do… Well... I believe that there are a few that do not pretend… the human need… that extremely simple thing turned out to be one of the most complex things in the world… unless… unless we don't try to explain it… because if we don't make any effort to explain those needs, if each and every one of us just follow our needs… well they turnout to be again one of the most simple things in the world… and with that in mind, I need to read, today, and again The Little Prince… and that I shall do, without trying to explain why

Wednesday, 29 June 2005

Live 8
One of the best ideas famous people had in the last years.
To pressure the world leaders to help Africa by uniting hundreds of thousands by music is definitely a great idea.
I read an interview with Bob Geldof, Bono and Richard Curtis in which they explain the goal of making a series of free great concerts around the world. The greatness is that it will generate great revenue even without tickets (well… at least paid ones).
The other great thing is timing. We have 8 leaders (Bush, Blair, Berlusconi, Schroeder, Putin, Chirac, Martin and Koizumi), from these 8 leaders we have Bush, Blair, Schroeder and Chirac in their last terms (weather it’s because their unable/unwilling to run again or because they’ll lose the next election, doesn’t matter) and (with luck) will want to put their names in history… and Africa is the great opportunity they have, the chance to put their names in a history of Africa as the ones that gave bases to end poverty, hunger and war in the continent.
Are the lords of the world willing to make this true? Well that is another question. They have forgiven the debt of the poorest countries and we need to understand that they (especially Bush) have already done more than all others before them, but Africa needs more. They need to be able to compete with the rest of the world… although it may seems stupid, Africa is the part of the world that most needs globalization, free markets and free competition, and while EU and US continue with their protectionist politics there is no real help… just show off. And there is where the concerts and all the media frenzy enters, it’s where we all enter. If even after all that has been done we stand up and say: We want more, we understand that Africa needs more, then they will have to make the effort necessary to make Africa an example.
I’m really hoping that will happen.